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Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You.
Worried
that your spouse is being unfaithful? Here are 10 red flags to look out for.
I have watched many marriages be torn apart because of infidelity.
It is heart wrenching to witness beloved friends having to live their worst
nightmare as they discover their spouse has been selfish and unfaithful. I
would never wish it on anyone. Because of this, I have used these awful
experiences to collect advice and tips on how to catch a cheater before it is
too late in hopes that it may help someone in the future.
Here are 10 of the most common signs that your spouse is
cheating:
1. Frequent change of passwords
If you notice your spouse
changing their email, cell phone, computer or social media passwords more than
usual, chances are they are trying to hide something.
2. Social media profiles
If a spouse is unfaithful,
they will most likely make their social media profiles look very
"single." Updating their profile picture to a solo shot or a picture
with friends and hiding photos of you as a couple should be a big red flag.
Also take notice if there is an obvious increase in the amount of time your
spouse spends on social networks each day.
3. Cellphone habits
A healthy relationship is
an open one. When your spouse answers the phone and immediately moves to a room
where you cannot overhear the conversation, watch out. Unless they are planning
a surprise birthday party for you, your spouse should feel comfortable talking
to anyone on the phone in front of you.
4. Decreased or increased desire for intimacy
In some cases the desire
for sex may decrease since the cheater is already getting their pleasure
outside the home. However, there is also the possibility that his or her
interest in having sex may increase, because of feelings of guilt.
5. Cleared history
A big sign that someone is
being unfaithful is when you find their computer or phone history cleared
regularly. Though your spouse might be doing this for security reasons, it is
more likely that they are trying to "cover their tracks."
6. Increase in social activities
Take note when your spouse
starts attending more social gatherings alone. A guys' night out or a business
party are commonly used cover-ups.
7. Increase the extra costs
If it seems you are a little tighter on money at the end of the
month than normal, look at where your extra money is going. Cheaters will often
take out cash to make it more difficult to track where they have spent the
money.
8. Physical appearance
Be careful not to jump to
conclusions with this one. Your spouse's newfound desire to be more physically
attractive might be a result of trying to look more professional for work, or
maybe they are just trying to catch your eye. However, if you have noticed any
of the other signs on this list, you may have a problem. When seeking a new
relationship or adventure, people usually take extra care in managing their
outward appearance.
9. Blame you for everything
No matter if something
happened at work or away from home, they find a way to blame you and make you
feel lousy.
10. Increase in gifts
Spouses who are being
unfaithful will often try to cover their guilt with splurges of gifts. If you
are surprised by the sudden amount of attention and gifts your spouse is giving
you, you might want find out what the motive behind them is.
If
you find four or more of these signs in your life, something strange is
happening. It doesn't guarantee that your spouse is caught up in an affair, but
they are the beginning steps towards infidelity. Be careful to avoid outright
accusing them of being unfaithful. Instead, talk to them and try to understand
what is going on. If there is a problem, try your best to work through it with
your spouse, forgive their mistakes and save your marriage.
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